BOSS Mindset: Make Those Mistakes

When did it become a self-imposed rule that voice actors are perfect and NEVER make a mistake?  OMG You’re human – so why is everyone so embarrassed, ashamed and mean to themselves when they make a mistake? Your personal and professional growth is actually dependent upon learning from errors. Stop holding yourself to impossible standards and start owning your mistakes like a boss!



Takeaways

Quick Concepts from Today’s Episode:

  1. There’s a good reason why VOBoss episodes often contain outtakes. As Bosses we have to learn to risk a little embarrassment and not take ourselves too seriously.

  2. But more importantly accepting and owning up to mistakes are a part of personal and professional development.

  3. In voiceover sessions, mistakes can become stuck points that actors obsess over.

  4. Mistakes on mic can be like a snowball. It starts small, but as it rolls down the mountain, it becomes bigger and bigger, until you are buried.

  5. We make on-mic mistakes at the most inopportune moments – like when clients are directing.

  6. How you handle the emotional aspect of the mistake makes all the difference.

  7. Your client should not feel as if they have to help you in that moment.

  8. The famed Voice Acting Academy in San Diego CA has a Sorry Jar. Students are required to put money in the jar every time they say ‘sorry’ on mic.

  9. Acceptance is critical. Sometimes we make a mistake over and over and over and over and…

  10. Sometimes mistakes are due to miscommunication. It may feel like you aren’t ‘getting’ the clients’ direction.

  11. Sometimes repeating direction back to your client in your own words can clarify the direction for everyone.

  12. And sometimes your client simply does not know what they are looking for.

  13. See a discussion about direction as just that, a constructive discussion.

  14. Rather than panic or be embarrassed know that the client is likely feeling empathy toward you, not anger.

  15. When we being to spiral and the thoughts in our own head start racing, we have stopped listening.

  16. Author Brenee Brown writes and speaks on the topic of shame.



Referenced in this Episode

Direct links to things we brought up ++


Lifehacker talks about the benefits of mistakes!
Learn more about The Voice Acting Academy in San Diego that won’t let you apologize
Watch Brené Brown’s Ted Talk on the power of mistakes and being vulnerable.
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Transcript

>> Today’s voiceover talent is more than just a pretty voice.

>> Pretty voice.

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>> Pretty voice.

>> Today’s voiceover talent has to be a BOSS.

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>> Join us each week for business owner strategies and success with your hosts Anne Ganguzza and Gabrielle Nistico, along with some of the strongest voices in our industry.

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Anne: Hey hey, everybody. Welcome to the VO BOSS podcast. I’m your host Anne Ganguzza, along with my VO BOSS bestie~ Gabby Nis…ugh, Gabby Nistico! Damn, I made a mistake. [laughs] Sorry, Gabby. 

Gabby: And how do you feel about that mistake? 

Anne: Yeah, I’m owning it. I’m owning that mistake. 

Gabby: Because you know what? You’re human. We make mistakes. It happens. 

Anne: We’re very well aware of that, especially when you play outtakes. [laughs] How many mistakes does Anne make? Quite a few. I think that making mistakes and owning up to them is a part of your professional growth as a entrepreneur. I know there is so many of my students, and I know yours too, they’re so scared of making a mistake. 

Gabby: Terrified, and it becomes like a session stuck point. People will make a mistake, they’ll linger on it. I had a teacher years ago who called it the avalanche effect. It was a snowball. And the snowball would start rolling downhill and it would just get bigger and bigger and bigger and bigger. Eventually it was like the mountain falls on top of you, and it’s because you’re, in a sense, you’re allowing it to happen. You make the mistake and you get flustered, you get frustrated, you get frazzled, and you make the mistake again or again or again or again. Guys, it’s part of this job. I mean, any voice actor who tells you that they’ve never gotten tongue-tied or hung up on a phrase. They’re full of [beep].

Anne: It happens all the time.

Gabby: Constantly.

Anne: You just get into a rut with it, and then it becomes –

Gabby: Yeah, repeat and repeat at that point. [laughs]

Anne: We’re here to say it’s ok, guys. It does happen. And it happens in front of clients. But can you imagine, Gabby, like thankfully, I mean I do a ton of my work here in my home studio, and I know you do probably more directed work than I do. I [laughs] it’s ok. I think I’m comfortable with making mistakes and owning them, even if I’m in front of a client, which really helps because I’ve been in the situation where, a long time ago, when I really became panicked by it. And then it just makes you look less than professional. Because you’re not handling the emotional aspect of the mistake well enough to actually continue with the session.

Gabby: Exactly. The people in the session, the client, the writer, the engineer, producers, directors, whoever is there, it should not then become their job to have to emotionally talk you down.

Anne: Yeah right?

Gabby: And deescalate you so that you can get back to the business at hand. For the majority of us, when you’re used to home recording, working from home, you’re cool, you’re calm, you’re collected, it’s your space, it’s your environment, you know exactly what’s going on. You make a mistake, no big, you keep going. That exact same thought process has to be replicated –

Anne: Yes, in the studio.

Gabby: – when there is a client on the line. Or anywhere that someone else is a part of your session. The Voice Acting Academy of San Diego and James Alburger, he has a sorry jar. And I’ve always loved this concept, because he talks about in his classes how students will waste so much time apologizing for their mistakes in a session, that it’s a rule at his facility. If you screw up and you say you’re sorry, you have to put a dollar in the sorry jar. [laughs